by Kawika Sands
I received a copy of this through the outrigger.org mailing list (several years ago) and thought it very special. With permission.
In the beginning A (pronounced “ahh”), the eternal light giver, created Namaka O Ka Hai (the great power of the sea). But A saw the seas were alone, so he freed the force Pele. Pele created the lands. To keep them above her jealous sister, she constantly renewed them. The people who found these lands named it Hawai’i hailing it as a place of blessed “alo” or “aloha” meaning “in the presence of A.” Life in old Hawai’i was a spiritual experience. There was aloha everywhere; in the people, plants, animals, rocks and reefs. Even in the canoes and paddles and the tools used to make them.
But aloha is more than a word, it’s a way of life. If there is life, there is mana, goodness, and wisdom. If there is goodness and wisdom in a person, there is a god-quality. One must recognize the “god of life” in another before saying “Aloha.” It means mutual regard and affection and extends warmth in caring with no obligation in return. It’s the essence of relationships in which each person is important to every other person for collective existence. It’s to hear what is not said, to see what cannot be seen and to know the unknowable.
To say “Aloha” to another with indifference is blasphemous, just as saying “Mahalo” ungraciously is profane. Therefore, when one says “Aloha” to another, one must mean it sincerely. If you are angry with someone, you must cleanse away all ill feeling before saying “Aloha.” It is said, and given, freely and without condition or expectation and with the realization that it may not be returned but it is given without regrets nonetheless. It is this concept more than any other that distinguishes the Hawaiian culture. It also allows an outrigger club and its’ members to grow and thrive. A club’s leaders, more than any other, should understand, and be possessed of, this concept. It is not enough to be in charge, one must lead by example. Aunty Pilahi Paki described it in this unuhi laula loa:
Akahai; kindness, expressed with a feeling of tenderness,
Lokahi; unity, expressed with a feeling of harmony,
‘Olu’olu; agreeable, expressed with a feeling pleasantness,
Ha’aha’a; humility, expressed with a feeling of modesty,
Ahonui; patience, expressed with a feeling of perseverance.
These are the traits that express the charm, the warmth, the sincerity, the generosity, and the love of an intangible substance or spirit known to many in
Hawai’i nei as “ALOHA.”
ALOHA NO, A HUI HOU,